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The Going Deep Podcast dives unapologetically into self-development, sex, relationships, and the raw truths of human behavior. No surface-level fluff—just real, explicit, and transformative conversations that cut through the noise. If you’re ready to challenge your beliefs, break toxic patterns, and embrace deeper connections, this is where it all begins.
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Tuesday May 27, 2025
This 4-Step Method Rewires Triggers FAST
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Tuesday May 27, 2025
This 4-step method takes shadow work to another level. It's the self-improvement process you have been missing to reverse negative thoughts, emotional triggers, anxiety, depression, and even childhood trauma back into freedom and wholeness.
This video breaks down my proven 4-step, powerful somatic method to finally heal what’s been living in your body—so you can transform your life from the inside out.
You can plug ANY NEGATIVE emotion into this system!!
In this video, you’ll learn how to:
❤️ Release trapped emotions (doesn't matter how long they have been there)
🩷 Rewire your deepest subconscious patterns
🧡 Stop emotional triggers for good
💛 Feel lighter, more authentic and genuinely happier
Forget surface-level affirmations or mindset hacks—this is the deep inner work that rewires your nervous system and creates lasting emotional freedom. These steps are based on real results from somatic therapy, trauma recovery, and subconscious transformation work.
✨ If you’ve tried everything and nothing seems to stick—this is the shift you’ve been waiting for!!!
#traumahealing #somatichealing #shadowwork #emotionalhealing #howtohealtrauma #selfimprovement #nervoussystemregulation #healingjourney #innerwork #triggers #selfgrowth #emotionalmastery
⬇️ NEXT STEPS⬇️
🕊️ 🛑 The course I mentioned in this video, called Rewild Your Release, will take you through a journey to completely re-write your life story from the inside out, remove ALL trauma from your body and give you direct access back into freedom and wholeness! 👇🏻
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/rewild-your-release/ 📅
Book a 1:1 Session with Me Personalized coaching + Hypnotherapy to help you break through your deepest challenges and step into your full potential.
🔗 https://katekali.com/private-session-kate/
🔥 FREE Men's Masterclass – Break through your limiting beliefs and access unwavering confidence and deep authenticity
🔗 https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/
💙 FREE Self-Sabotage E-Book - End cycles of self-sabotage and limiting beliefs for good!
🔗 https://katekali.com/the-self-sabotage-solution-1/
TikTok: [@kate__kali] Instagram: [@kate__kali]

Tuesday May 20, 2025
How to Overcome Nice Guy Syndrome FAST – 3 Things to do NOW
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Overcome Nice Guy Syndrome FAST – 3 Things to do NOW | In this video, I give you 3 practical steps to finally overcome Nice Guy Syndrome. I share 3 practical steps you can do TODAY, not just more overthinking or collecting more information about the subject!
If you’ve already read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover, you’ll love how we go deeper in this video. If you're stuck in people pleasing, afraid of rejection, and constantly playing it safe in dating and relationships, all while feeling undervalued, taken advantage of ,or underconfident... this is your wake-up call. We’re diving into the fastest ways to stop being the “Nice Guy” and activate your masculine energy so you can show up with confidence, clarity, and power in modern dating and relationships.
This video covers:
✔️ The #1 action you need to rewire Nice Guy behavior on a subconscious level
✔️ Why neediness, loneliness, and desperation kill attraction
✔️ Daily habits that naturally build your masculine energy and attractiveness.
👇🏻 NEXT STEPS 👇🏻
❤️🔥 Attraction Mastery – Masculine Polarity Secrets for a Thriving S-x Life & Lasting Connection
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/attraction-mastery
✅ Free Men's Masterclass – Break through your limiting beliefs and access unwavering confidence and deep, masculine authenticity
🔗 https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/
🏆 Mastery for Men – The Ultimate Self-Development Program to transform your inner world, heal your past, and step into unstoppable, masculine confidence.
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/mastery-for-men/
📅 Book a 1:1 Session with Me - Personalized coaching + Hypnotherapy to help you break through your deepest challenges and step into your full potential.

Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
The Spiritual Wisdom of the C**k (Part 2)
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
This is Part 2 of our deep dive into unlocking your true masculine instinct and stepping into your full power as a man. If you haven’t watched Part 1 yet, go do that first!
In this episode, we explore how your body holds the key to your confidence, purpose, and fulfillment—and why a lot of men are disconnected from their instinctual energy.
Your primal wisdom lives in your lower body, in the space that represents your biological mission and life force. If you’ve been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or disconnected from your true masculine energy, this is the missing piece!
🔥 In This Video, You’ll Learn:
✔️ Why your body holds untapped wisdom
✔️ How to access and release blocks to your instinct
✔️ The secret to feeling fully confident & powerful as a man
✔️ How somatic awareness transforms your attraction, abundance, & purpose
👉 Don’t just understand it—FEEL it. This IS NOT about mindset hacks. This is about REAL, embodied transformation.
✅ FOLLOW to GO DEEP with me and get the raw truth about love, desire, and transformation!
🎥 Listen to Part 1 here: https://youtu.be/9Bg1M6DJB8E?si=aOQehP2fQAmf_jIG
👇 Want to work with me deeper? 👇
🔥 FREE Men's Masterclass – Break through your limiting beliefs and access unwavering confidence and deep authenticity
🔗 https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/
❤️ Attraction Mastery – Polarity Secrets for a Thriving S-x Life & Lasting Connection
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/attraction-mastery
🏆 Mastery for Men – The Ultimate Self-Development Program
Transform your inner world, heal your past, and step into unstoppable confidence.
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/mastery-for-men/
📅 Book a 1:1 Session with Me
Personalized coaching + Hypnotherapy to help you break through your deepest challenges and step into your full potential.
🔗 https://katekali.com/private-session-kate/

Thursday Mar 13, 2025
The Self Development TRAP Keeping Men Stuck (Part 1)
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
Without this ONE thing, women will never truly respect you, no matter how much self-development work you’ve done. In fact, women NEED to experience this one thing from you for them to commit to you, feel truly feminine, and be authentically and wildly attracted to you. There’s a reason why many ‘nice guys’ or really ‘good’ guys, with a huge heart and lot of integrity struggle in relationships, attraction, self-worth, and confidence. Maybe you’ve done the work, listened to all the podcasts, read the books, and even explored shadow work… But something still feels off. You’re stuck in your head, trapped in people-pleasing, and wondering why women don’t seem to feel that raw attraction toward you. The truth? Society has stripped many men of their primal masculine instinct – and reclaiming it is the key to becoming the man you’re meant to be. In this podcast, we break down what’s REALLY holding you back, why your masculinity is a gift, and how to embody your full power without losing your depth and integrity.
👇 Links for Next Steps 👇
🔥 FREE Men's Masterclass – Break through your limiting beliefs and access unwavering confidence and deep authenticity
🔗 https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/
❤️ Attraction Mastery – Polarity Secrets for a Thriving S-x Life & Lasting Connection
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/attraction-mastery
🏆 Mastery for Men
Transform your inner world, heal your past, and step into unstoppable confidence.
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/mastery-for-men/
📅 Book a 1:1 Session with Me
Personalized coaching + Hypnotherapy to help you break through your deepest challenges and step into your full potential.
🔗 https://katekali.com/private-session-kate/

Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
5 Emotional Mistakes That RUIN Relationships
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Are your emotions silently sabotaging your relationship? Most people were never taught emotional intelligence or awareness, leaving them trapped in patterns that destroy intimacy and connection.
They repress emotions, people-please, sweep issues under the rug, and then wonder why their relationship is falling apart—why their drive is low, attraction is fading, and conflict keeps repeating. The truth? Emotional health is the foundation of a thriving partnership.
If you don't know how to process emotions in a healthy way, you'll unknowingly push your partner away—or create toxic cycles that drain your relationship.
🔥 In this episode, we break down 5 hidden emotional mistakes that kill intimacy, connection, and long-term attraction—and how to fix them.
You'll learn:
💡 The biochemical process behind emotions and how they affect relationships 🔥 How to process emotions in a way that deepens connection instead of creating distance
❌ The 5 biggest emotional mistakes that lead to miscommunication and loss of intimacy
❤️ How to transform emotions into connection, authenticity, and deeper love If you want a thriving, emotionally fulfilling relationship, watch this before it’s too late!
👇 Links for Next Steps 👇
🔥 FREE E-Book: The Self-Sabotage Solution
🔗 https://katekali.com/the-self-sabotage-solution-1/
🐅 EMOTIONAL & TRAUMA HEALING COURSE: Rewild Your Release
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/rewild-your-release/
❤️ Attraction Mastery: Polarity Secrets for Him for a Thriving S-x Life & Lasting Connection
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/attraction-mastery
🏆 Mastery for Men: Transform your inner world, heal your past, and step into unstoppable confidence.
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/mastery-for-men/
📅 Book a 1:1 Session with Me Personalized coaching + hypnotherapy to help you break through your deepest challenges and step into your full potential.
🔗 https://katekali.com/private-session-kate/

Saturday Feb 22, 2025
Mens Shadow Work: The Dark Side of Self-Improvement
Saturday Feb 22, 2025
Saturday Feb 22, 2025
Men's shadow work is a complex subject. However, one that needs to be discussed, especially for the man seeking to embody his divine masculine.
A lot of men dive into the self-development world thinking that building discipline, setting goals, and following that "Tony Robbins" mindset will solve everything—yet deep down, something still feels off. That’s because without doing shadow work, they’re only fixing the surface while their subconscious patterns continue to run in the background, creating negative results in their life, namely in their romantic relationships.
If you’ve ever struggled with Nice Guy Syndrome, emotional numbness, self-sabotage, male depression, or just a feeling that something is off, there is an indication for shadow work.
True masculinity can only happen when a man enters his internal kingdom on his hero's journey and faces his deepest and darkest pain.
In this video, I share:
✅ Why shadow work is essential for men and how avoiding it holds you back
✅ How masculine energy makes shadow work harder—but also more powerful
✅ The unique way men must do shadow work for true personal development (without slipping into feminine ways of doing shadow work)
✅ The 4 key steps to uncovering and healing your shadow while unlocking your full masculine potential.
👇 Links for Next Steps 👇
🔥 FREE Men's Masterclass – Break through your limiting beliefs and access unwavering confidence and deep authenticity
🔗 https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/
❤️ Attraction Mastery – Polarity Secrets for a Thriving S-x Life & Lasting Connection
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/attraction-mastery
🏆 Mastery for Men – The Ultimate Self-Development Program Transform your inner world, heal your past, and step into unstoppable confidence.
🔗 https://shop.katekali.com/products/mastery-for-men/
📅 Book a 1:1 Session with Me Personalized coaching + Hypnotherapy to help you break through your deepest challenges and step into your full potential.
🔗 https://katekali.com/private-session-kate/

Sunday Feb 16, 2025
This Makes A Woman OBSESSED With You
Sunday Feb 16, 2025
Sunday Feb 16, 2025
What really makes a woman crave a man for life?
In this episode, we dive deep into the secrets of lasting attraction, feminine desire, and how to be the kind of man she never wants to leave. If you want a thriving sex life, deeper emotional intimacy, and to embody a masculine presence that keeps your woman hooked, this is for you.
Inside this conversation, you’ll discover:
✅ What makes a woman feel truly safe in bed (so she can surrender to her deepest pleasure)
✅ How to awaken her full sexual drive & desire for you by stepping into your masculine energy
✅ How to make a woman feel sexy (inside and outside the bedroom)
✅ How to be a true gentleman in the early stages of intimacy
✅ How to take charge & be a masculine leader (especially when she’s emotional or stressed)
✅ How to maintain a passionate sex life, even after years of marriage or kids
✅ The one powerful shift that will keep your woman open, receptive, and craving you
✅ Exclusive insights from two women on what we REALLY think about sex & intimacy 👀
✅ And… How your c—k can actually be a gift to your woman’s self-expression** 🤯
This episode will change the way you see attraction, intimacy and s-x in long-term relationships!
🔥 Want ALL my secrets to a thriving sex life & lasting connection?
🔗 Join Attraction Mastery Here → https://shop.katekali.com/products/attraction-mastery
🖤 Get Started With Men's Shadow Work:
🔗 Watch: Men’s Shadow Work – The Dark Side of Self-Improvement → https://youtu.be/qN43fYrJzBU
💪 Watch My Free Masterclass to Increase Confidence, Attraction & Step Into Your Best Self
🔗 Watch: UNLEASH YOUR MASCULINITY → https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/
🧠 Want to book a 1:1 session with Kate Kali?
📅 Book a session here → https://katekali.com/private-session-kate/
💬 Want to work with today’s guest therapist?
🔗 Connect with her here → http://thinkwelltherapy.com

Thursday Jan 30, 2025
2 Hidden Reasons Behind 'Nice Guy Syndrome' (And How to Fix it!)
Thursday Jan 30, 2025
Thursday Jan 30, 2025
If you've ever wondered, "What causes nice guy syndrome?" or "Why do I keep getting friend-zoned?"
Are you tired of being a "nice guy" and getting walked all over? Do you find yourself constantly seeking validation and approval from others, only to end up feeling frustrated and resentful?
"Nice guy syndrome" is a common phenomenon where men prioritize others' needs over their own, leading to feelings of burnout and resentment. But what if I told you that there are two hidden reasons behind this syndrome that no one is talking about?
In this video, we'll dive deep into the psychology behind the "nice guy" mentality and explore the two underlying factors that are holding you back from forming healthy relationships and achieving true fulfillment.
Links:
🔥 50 Turn-Ons Women Crave – A powerful resource to help you understand what women truly desire: https://shop.katekali.com/products/50-turn-ons-she-craves
💡 The Nice Guy's Guide to Getting the Girl – A step-by-step guide to overcoming nice guy syndrome and becoming the man you’re meant to be: https://katekali.com/nice-guys-guide/
🎓 Free Men's Masterclass – Join my free masterclass to learn my 3 step process for self-growth, authentic confidence and success in relationships: https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/